My own little black lesbian island

sometimes i wonder if i am the only black lesbian out there. I’ve probably met THREE in my life. Is there anyone else going through this alone?! Its like I am just making this shit up as i go sometimes I could use some guidance, someone to relate to…its like there is this whole sub culture of lesbians i know i belong to, but i am just here on my own little black queer island. :/ blah